don’t waste your time apologizing when you can put the effort into doing the change that makes you prevent the apology. Focus on the thing that you are apologizing for and stop doing that single thing only, you already recognize it if you listen to your words, it is difficult
the best way to communicate is to think of using only positive words that the other person wins also. Even if they win more it doesn’t matter because it’s just words. It is from my experience also.
imagine if your argument was, I think the most and found the most things that were better for you than me. If you scale this, it just grows from your imagination to reality. I’ve been doing that for people for many years and it’s always been the same. Pick a goal. Go towards it. Don’t go through everything. That is my experience that I can say don’t do. See everything along the way. Communicate with everything along the way. Enjoy everything along the way, the goal doesn’t matter in the end. Go to a morgue and ask them. If they answer, leave the morgue, they are alive and bring you them with you.
Live long. You are already prosperous.